Coaching and Mentoring
All you need to find peace of mind regardless of circumstances
You can find peace, whatever life has dealt you
When your circumstances aren’t likely to change, it can seem like your feelings are at the mercy of them - like there’s no other choice but to feel how you feel, given the way things are.
It might seem like there’s no way you could feel differently, let alone come to peace and live with joy if things aren’t going to change.
You might have even been told that this is just something you'll have to come to terms with - that you'll have to accept that you'll always feel some level of sadness, grief, or anxiety about the way your life has turned out.
Maybe you've sat in front of therapists, who tried their best but couldn't take away the pain.
Me too, and I can tell you, hand on heart, it’s 100% not true.
You have everything you need to come to peace with your circumstances and live a full and happy life - even one beyond your wildest dreams, like me.
If that’s something you’d like to explore with someone who’s walked that path, I’d like to offer you a personalised coaching experience, one-to-one.
How might it affect your relationships?
How would the feeling of your life change?
What might you do, that you've stopped yourself from doing?
How much more energy might you have?
What might happen to the limits and boundaries you've put on your life?
This is the most personal, and for many the most impactful way of working with me, as it's tailored directly and intimately to your situation and your needs.
Insight vs Information
Real change doesn't come from information overload and new coping mechanisms; it comes from seeing something new and fresh in a moment.
This change is effortless and fundamental.
That's why you won't walk away from this one-to-one coaching programme with a tonne of new information to assimilate, or new strategies and techniques to help you manage your mental state.
You'll have what you need to uncover the peace of mind you're looking for.
Foundations of a life you love - 3-month Deep Dive Programme
€2495 + VAT
Over the space of three months, we'll dive deep into this healing and liberating conversation, designed to help you have insights and realisations that are tailor-made for you. If you feel like your life doesn't fit, this may be the programme to help you step into a life you love.
What the exploration looks like:
Initial deep-dive call (1.5 - 2 hours)
8 x 1-hour coaching conversations
Your questions answered between sessions via email or messaging app.
You'll receive copies of my books, and I'll handpick resources as we go, that align with our direction of travel.
Open up to possibilities - 1-month Programme
€997 + VAT
If there's something you'd love to see more about in your life - for example, regret, overwhelm, relationships, living a happy life without children - this programme can be the catalyst that opens up a new future.
Over the space of 30 days, we'll start to uncover what's keeping you feeling stuck, and point you in the direction of the truth of who you are and what you're made of.
The programme includes:
4 x 1-hour coaching conversations (via zoom)
Your most pressing questions answered between calls via email or messaging app.
Copies of my books.
While you may start with one 'issue' in mind, it's likely that through our conversations, you'll start to see changes occurring in the most unexpected and welcome of ways.
Join me and take a journey into new possibilities.
Life in colour - Fresh perspectives on life without children
2-month deep-dive experience
€1295 +VAT (Get 50% off with coupon code COLOUR50)
If you've found yourself living the life unexpected, and aren't sure 'where to from here', join me in a healing exploration that can open up a whole new world - one where peace of mind, joy, love and purpose are your birthright.
It's common in the 'childless-not-by-choice' community to feel like there's something missing - like you've been handed the booby-prize life. I didn't want that for myself and I don't want it for you. The good news is that it's not true; you're already complete and you can have a life you love.
This 60-day exploration is tailor-made for you, and we're likely to cover topics like:
- identity
- purpose
- fulfilment
- regret
- triggers
- what if...
You'll receive:
Five coaching conversations
Copies of my books
Your most pressing questions answered between calls via email or messaging app
2 optional "short-notice" calls for those times when you just can't see the way ahead.
For a limited time, I'm offering this programme at half price, because I want more people to experience the freedom of knowing you're already complete.
Enter the coupon code COLOUR50 at checkout. Offer expires 30 April 2025.
I have fallen into the trap, over many many years, of seeking the reasons why things have happened as they have. I have been blaming myself for being childless, and searching for an understanding of how I let this happen, and how do I live with it. Your explanations have given me a true sense of relief, I am going to be 50 at the end of this year, and the sense of optimism I now feel is a truly wonderful gift.
Already this has made my life so much nicer. Over the last couple weeks I have watched trigger after trigger kind of…float by. Amazing! I mean, it really is shocking when you experience not being triggered by things for the first time! I am looking at Christmas posts on Facebook with children and holiday traditions and I feel… at peace, surprisingly unperturbed. It really is shocking when you experience not being triggered by things for the first time!
I now feel sane again...
Vivienne, thank you so much for transforming my life.
I have realised through the resilience coaching that I am not broken, that my thoughts are simply like clouds in a blue sky, and that storms pass... I realised that my continuing suffering is not necessary.
A game-changer in my work and my life in general. If you get the chance to work with Vivienne, just do it.
Viv's quiet authority gave me confidence in her from the outset. She helped me at a time I was in a toxic work environment and developed depression. Viv helped me to understand and see my reactions and thinking in a very different way that enabled me to rediscover my resilience.
"I was preparing for a big public speaking event and just one conversation with Viv helped me to see through my procrastination around rehearsing my talk - and pointed me in a new direction. Viv's coaching style was ever so calm and spacious. She is great at just noticing things you say, gently holding up the mirror and leaving you to look at yourself through your own eyes."
Michelle Howie,
Consultant, NZ
www.michellehowie.com
